I was a Jewish teenager in a Jewish youth group. I did not have any friends at School and this is where the majority of my friends were.
North American Federation of Temple Youth (NFTY) to be exact. There are regions and different temples have their own youth group and the different youth groups have events together.
I was at a conclave (that’s what they call them) and in the different programs they were talking about Rabbi Hillel.
Who was Rabbi Hillel?
Hillel was a Jewish religious leader, sage and scholar associated with the development of the Mishnah and Talmud (Rabbinic commentary). He was active during the end of the first century BCE and at the beginning of the first century CE.
The one quote always stuck with me:
If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If am not for others, what am i? And if not now, when?
Rabbi Hillel
To me it meant defending and protecting people who need it most. This quote became a driving force throughout my life.
When my parents would bully my younger brother, I would step between them and my brother to protect him. I also defended people in school being bullied.
This quote stayed with me my entire life. I really do believe that discussing this quote with other Jewish teens inspired me to advocate for others later in life.
Other Hillel Quotes
That which is hateful to you, do not do to another. That is the whole Law. The rest is commentary. Now go and learn.
Rabbi Hillel
A single candle can light a thousand more without diminishing itself
Rabbi Hillel
Take care of yourself – you never know when the world will need you
Rabbi Hillel
Who does not grow, declines.
Rabbi Hillel
In a place where there is no humans, be human.
Rabbi Hillel
Judge not thy friend until thou standest in his place
Rabbi Hillel
The more flesh, the more worms; the more possession, the more worry
Rabbi Hillel
Say not:”When I have free time I shall study” for you perhaps never have any free time.
Rabbi Hillel
He who refuses to learn deserves extinction
Rabbi Hillel
Be of the deciles of Aaron, loving peace and perusing peace, loving your fellow creature and drawing them near to the law.
Rabbi Hillel
Moreover he saw a skull floating on the surface of the water and he said unto it,”Because you drowned others they drowned you; and those that drowned you will eventually be drowned.”
Rabbi Hillel
Now the question remains, if I am not for others, what am I?


And I know a lot of people use Hillel for self-advocacy and self-care too.
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